tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88791057579609878532024-02-19T21:26:17.390-05:00Just Another Tired MommyAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.comBlogger191125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-58272225672039116982012-10-12T15:18:00.001-04:002012-10-12T15:18:09.550-04:00100 Dead Bodies (or: PLEASE pick me to be the SITS representative for PestWorld.org)<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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There are a hundred dead bodies in my kitchen. They are splattered around the walls like a Trading Spaces episode gone wrong. Personally, I would rather have some freak of nature PAINT MY WHITE CARPET RED (WHAT?! It REALLY happened--back before having children destroyed my hang-around-in-my-PJs- (I was going to say UNDERWEAR, but I want you to be able to sleep tonight) and-watch-random- television-shows-days) than have a hundred dead bodies covering my walls. Just sayin'...<br />
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I finally snapped on Monday night. I couldn't take it anymore. The last time I felt this way it was about the floor in my house in Montana THREE years ago and there were no dead bodies. Thankfully, though my husband and children were pushing it. That particular time, I was scraping hardened oatmeal off of the floor for the ELEVENTH time that week (it was Tuesday) when some poor child had the misfortune of being THE ONE who dropped frozen (yet defrosted enough to REALLY do the job) blueberries. On my head. And on the floor. That I had JUST cleaned and washed. On my hands and knees. With my freshly showered hands. Yes--I took a SHOWER that day. THAT was definitely the straw.<br />
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Anyone who met me after January 17th 2009, knew a person who NEVER washed her floor. EVER. Everyone who knew me BEFORE that date knew a person who RARELY washed her floor. BIG DIFFERENCE. People would come to my house and try to take their shoes off and I would accost them at the front door noting,<br />
"My floors are far dirtier than your shoes could EVER be and you will probably leave here with peanut butter and chili on your sock."<br />
"You made chili?"<br />
"Two weeks ago...and I don't want to TALK about the peanut butter."<br />
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This was my way of dealing with THAT breakdown. That was BEFORE little gnats (or fruit flys) invaded my home. I don't believe those bugs (and they are called "BUGS" for a REASON!) exist in Montana. *SIGH* Montana...(cue soft music for my brief reverie...thank you). Who would have thought that a place I referred to as "MonFREAKINtana" before we lived there would be so close to my heart. I love Montana. FRUIT-FLYLESS, GANGLESS, ROAD RAGE-LESS, Corwinless, Montana. But I digress...again. I KNOW what I was talking about because a little gnat is CRAWLING ON MY SCREEN and when I smash his little face in, I'm not sure if my husband will be pleased that I can no longer use the computer, or ticked that HE can no longer use the computer.<br />
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I decided to wait it out with the gnat. He's looking at me and I at him, but no one is making the move. The thing is, I will be able to "visit" him later with my (now broken) hot pink swatter that took care of hundreds of his little buddies. And my glass cabinet. And a vase from my mother. And almost my middle child. Yes, sacrifices had to be made, but don't judge. On Monday night I went all Norman Bates on their...wings? and slashed through my kitchen like Freddie Krueger on Elm street. Yes, I am aware that most of you weren't even IN THE WOMB when either movie came out, but EDUCATE yourselves, people. Watch a little "Remember the eighties (seventies, nineties...)" on VH1 (YES, it IS a channel) and come play when you are done. You won't be disappointed.<br />
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So now I have black-spotted crown molding and little black splatters all over my ceiling. My cupboards (the ones that did not break in the attack) have a faux-bug-polka-dot finish. When I get going with my (now broken) (yes, I know I told you, but I'm really annoyed that a gnat the size of a sliver (and equally as painful) was able to split my swatter in half at the top. NO--I DON'T THINK I HAVE RAGE ISSUES--THANK YOU.) hot pink fly swatter, no one is safe. I heard my husband say to my children, 'Mommy's gone to the bad place again," and knew he was right. Though I AM winning the fight and will not go down until every last gnat-fruit-fly-bug is splattered somewhere in my house. Even if it's under the dried oatmeal and blueberries.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-78357364914587336032012-10-10T13:07:00.000-04:002012-10-10T13:07:27.070-04:00Pee-ka<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I ran into a wall today. No, I'm not speaking metaphorically--I LITERALLY ran into a wall this morning. Okay, I LITERALLY <i>danced</i> into a wall this morning. I was zumba-ing like a maniac and as I shimmied back, I heard a thud and realized it was me. If I would have shimmied a little more to the left I would have hit the mat, but I shimmied right into the concrete. Fun times!<br />
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This wasn't even in my <i>difficult</i> zumba class--you know, the one with classmates who are <i>not </i>in AARP. If I had done it in that class I would have felt less shame if only because it moves so fast that no one would notice. Instead I did it in the AARP class--most of the members of this class are also in my yoga/body ball class and remembered my tumble into the pipes. I know I've covered falls several times on here, but I still have so many more to share with you. I guess today wasn't really a <i>fall</i> necessarily, but it made the AARP ladies talk. In the next (more advanced) zumba class I look like I am having a stroke each day, but I hope that if I stick with it I will eventually be able to move without falling and endangering others. Hopefully.<br />
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It seems like I am constantly hurting myself. I'd like to say that this is new, but I would be lying. My first year in college, my friends and I went out to dinner off campus. The restaurant was Casey's and it is irrelevant, though I needed to show my brain that I <i>could</i> remember it.When I go out to eat, I consume a ridiculous amount of water. I always have, though now we think it is a symptom of one of my medical... anomalies. This particular night I drank about ten Pizza Hut-sized glasses of water and did not use the restroom. We chatted, I drank more. Chat, drink, chat, drink...leave.<br />
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I didn't think about using the restroom until we tried to squeeze into my friend's car. I <i>could have</i> gone inside, but I didn't. First, no one wanted to have to wait for me, and second, I didn't want to go b<i>ack.</i> I <i>thought </i>I would be fine. We parked in front of the dorm and I hobbled to the door. I was almost home-free, but the combination of <i>an ice patch</i> and my dress shoes sent me flying and landing on my tailbone. There was instantly a puddle surrounding me. I was <i>mortified, </i>but I could not stop laughing which made me pee more<i>. </i>I was laughing so hard, it looked like I was bawling. Some guy friends of ours were leaving the dorm and saw me on the ground. They saw me "crying" and all of my friends laughing. I will never forget my friend Scott's look of disgust as he reprimanded my friends for being so mean to me. 'You guys aren't even going to <i>help</i> her?! Here, Nika, let me help you up..." I remember the terror that ran through me at that moment. "I <i>will not</i> get up," I thought. "<i>...ever!"</i><br />
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I just shook my head at Scott and refused to move. He stayed for way too long as far as I'm concerned, but he finally gave up and left me alone. Maybe the smell of urine was wafting through his nostrils by that point. Even after he left I refused to get up. I truly thought I would sit there forever. I'd laugh, then cry, then sit. Finally my "girls" formed a circle around me and covered my bottom half with jackets and bodies, inching our way to the showers. From that day forward one of my friends (who shall remain nameless, Chrissy!) called me Pee-ka and we would all bust out into laughter. Okay...maybe I didn't <i> love</i> the nickname at first, but it really was one of the funniest (and admittedly, the most disgusting and embarrassing) things to happen to me. Of course, there are SOOO many things that I have done to try to hurt or maim myself, though few resulted in the laughs after that lovely Casey's dinner...<br />
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Recently we helped our dear friends move. No, we aren't really as good and nice as this makes us sound. These particular friends have helped us with our own move (the husband, we'll cal him Lad, drove our U-Haul across the country nearly killing himself in the process. THEY are good people. WE are just returning the favor!), so it was the least we could do. Because of the fact that I am a walking nightmare and my bazillion (it's a number) illnesses render me useless to the whole moving thing, I was on kid duty. We had a great and fun day and returned as they were closing up the truck. I felt like a big jerk for not being able to help, especially because everyone was singing my praises for doing things like swimming in the lake (fully clothed of course...that's how we roll...), playing at the arcade, and eating ice cream. It <i>was</i> a rough day--I'm lucky I made it!<br />
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Event though they had unloaded the truck and the cars, there were boxes everywhere, so I was able to unload some things which helped me to feel more useful. The next morning we wanted to help a little before we had to head home. My friend...let's call her Madaline...and I were talking about where to put everything. She has a gorgeous throw rug that she thought would look great underneath the table in the dining room. Madaline had to deal with cable or phone or something, so I thought I would roll out the carpet (so to speak) and get the dining room done for her before I had to leave. I always want to be that friend who gets things done for you and who makes you feel so happy that I came to "help." Unfortunately, I am the friend who kinda makes things worse and who <i>needs</i> that friend to help <i>me</i> to function in life!<br />
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The rug was rolled and taped and seemed easy enough to maneuver. I set it on the table and pulled the tape off of it.Somehow, as I bent down to get the tape off of the bottom roll of the rug, it did a see-saw sort of move, slammed into the ceiling fan (brand new with an <i>extremely</i> thick brushed glass light cover on it) and fell on my head. Yes, my <i>head.</i> As it was falling, I saw Madaline enter the room, a look of horror on her face. I was pretty sure that I looked like Carrie at the prom, but luckily, no blood was drawn. I had shards of glass <i>covering</i> my upper extremities and was a little afraid to move or to blink, but I came out of it with two cuts on my forearm that make people question whether or not I'm a cutter. other than that (and an <i>enormous</i> bump on my head), <i>I</i> was fine. The ceiling fan, however...<i>that</i> had seen better days! <br />
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So much for being the friend who helps! I'm more like "...the friend who ruins your things and then gets hospitalized..." <i>No one</i> wants to be <i>that</i> friend! At least I didn't pee, right?! </div>
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<b><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;">My nominees for the One Lovely Blog Award:</span></b></div>
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1. <a href="http://www.yourdoctorswife.com/" style="line-height: normal;" target="_blank">Your Doctor's Wife</a><span style="line-height: normal;"> I feel like Emma and I have been friends for years. Her posts will have </span><br />
<span style="line-height: normal;">you cracking </span><span style="line-height: normal;">up </span><span style="line-height: normal;">whether you are a doctor, a wife, a doctor's wife, a doctor's husband, a nurse, </span><br />
<span style="line-height: normal;">an orderly, or just a guy named </span><span style="line-height: normal;">Ralph. </span><span style="line-height: normal;">She. Is. Funny. Check out </span><br />
<a href="http://www.yourdoctorswife.com/2012/03/show-me-your-juicy-boobs-please.html" style="line-height: normal;" target="_blank">Show me Your Juicy Boobs Please</a><span style="line-height: normal;">--it may be one of the funniest posts </span></div>
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2. <a href="http://www.livinginkelliesworld.com/2012/08/meno-poise.html" style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;" target="_blank"><span style="color: #779955; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">L</span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; font-size: small; line-height: normal;">iving in Kellie's World</span></a><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;"> Joe (and Kellie) are so funny and Joe does a great job </span><br />
<span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">of bringing us </span><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">into Kellie's world--a hilarious place to be, I must add. I was also lucky </span><br />
<span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">enough to win my first </span><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">(and only) blog prize from Joe--though that had no influence on </span><br />
<span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">me (yes, I </span><i style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">can</i><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;"> be bought and </span><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">I </span><i style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">do</i><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;"> love book stores (it was a GC for B&N. B-a-r-n-e-s </span><br />
<span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">and </span><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">N-o-b-l-e. It's a BOOK store. </span><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">A book is something you read. Before Kindle and i-Pads, </span><br />
<span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">books were used almost exclusively. There are PAGES...forget it.), but I'd like to think that </span><br />
<span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">$25 wouldn't </span><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">be quite enough for me to sell out. Make it thirty and we'll talk!) Check out </span><br />
<span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">his post </span><a href="http://www.livinginkelliesworld.com/2012/08/meno-poise.html" style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;" target="_blank">Meno-Poise</a><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">--I swear I don't only love it because I am living it right now...</span></div>
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3. <a href="http://daddyknowsless.blogspot.com/2012/10/ill-pick-nothing-and-like-it.html#comment-form" style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;" target="_blank">Daddy Knows Less</a><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;"> His post today would be worth looking at simply because </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">of his picture</span><a href="http://daddyknowsless.blogspot.com/2012/10/ill-pick-nothing-and-like-it.html#comment-form" style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;" target="_blank"> </a><a href="http://daddyknowsless.blogspot.com/2012/10/ill-pick-nothing-and-like-it.html#comment-form" style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;" target="_blank">of "Peanut" at the pumpkin patch</a><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">. CLASSIC.</span></div>
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4. <a href="http://underachievingdomesticgoddess.blogspot.com/2012/06/im-hazard-to-myself.html" style="line-height: normal;" target="_blank"><span style="color: #779955; line-height: normal;">T</span><span style="line-height: normal;">he Underachiever's Guide to being a Domestic Goddess</span></a><span style="line-height: normal;">--She is gorgeous AND funny--and she </span><br />
<span style="line-height: normal;">made sure she </span><span style="line-height: normal;">remembered me when I went off the grid. THAT is something! </span><br />
<a href="http://underachievingdomesticgoddess.blogspot.com/2012/06/im-hazard-to-myself.html" style="line-height: normal;" target="_blank">This post</a><span style="line-height: normal;"> really had me laughing--you will, too!</span><br />
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<span style="line-height: normal;">5. My SISTAH from another MISTAH...</span><a href="http://www.alittlelucidity.com/" style="line-height: normal;" target="_blank">A Little Lucidity</a><span style="line-height: normal;"> and I could chat for HOURS...and we </span><br />
<span style="line-height: normal;">have! </span><span style="line-height: normal;">She recently </span><span style="line-height: normal;">celebrated her one year Blogoversary. Hopefully that means she will be back </span><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;">7 random things about yourself:</span></b><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">1. I have a big toe the size of Rhode Island.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">2. I have somehow been blessed with the most amazing friends anyone could </span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">ever hope to </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">have. really. It is actually a bit bizarre that wherever I go (even virtually on my blog!) </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">I meet THE most amazingly nice, helpful, and GIVING people. It ALWAYS happens and </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">I really don't deserve it. I DO appreciate it.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">3. I do not like to share my water bottle with ANYONE. EVER. Of course, when people </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">are looking and judging and my children are nearing dehydration, I will allow them to </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">drink, </span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">but that is RARE. In high school (you know...back when the first water bottles </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">were "invented," we brought bottles to our field hockey game. My friend did not have </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">one and she asked me for a sip. I watched the water go into her mouth and come right </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">back down into my Evian. needless to say, I gave her that bottle and was done sharing </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">water after that day.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">4. I played field hockey for like fourteen seconds my senior year of high school. I was not good.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">5. I danced for like nine years, yet when I try to "Zumba" everyone runs for cover.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;">6. For years I would carry around Styrofoam McDonald's or Chik-fil-A cups full of water. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;">Students would tell me that I was hurting the environment. When I told them that I used </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;">the same cup for a week or two and washed it, I was told, "You are so Ghetto, Miss Corwin..." </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">7. My husband and I think we are on a sitcom. We BOTH expect to hear a laugh reel </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">whenever we say something we deem to be funny. We need help.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;">Thank you </span><a href="http://mooreorganizedmayhem.blogspot.com/2012/10/shame-on-me.html?spref=fb" target="_blank">Moore Organized Mayhem</a><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;"> for this One Lovely Blog Award! It felt so great </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;">to be recognized </span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: 1.5;">and to know that someone is still reading! It also gives me an idea </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: 1.5;">of what to write about since I seem </span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: 1.5;">to be embracing an eleven-month case of writer's </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: 1.5;">block! If you haven't visited </span><a href="http://mooreorganizedmayhem.blogspot.com/2012/10/shame-on-me.html?spref=fb" style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: 1.5;" target="_blank">Moore Organized Mayhem</a><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: 1.5;"> </span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: 1.5;">on her blog or on facebook, you </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: 1.5;">should do it now--she is so much fun and always has a smile or a laugh. </span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;">Like with most things, winning blog awards usually comes with rules--the good news is, </span></b><br />
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<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;">* Include the blog award in your post. CHECK (This one is not so eas y a task for me, </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;">as every time </span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: 1.5;">I try to add a button or do anything but...type...on my blog I end up deleting </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;">* Thank the person who nominated you. CHECK But I will do it again...THANK YOU </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;"><a href="http://mooreorganizedmayhem.blogspot.com/2012/10/shame-on-me.html?spref=fb" target="_blank">Moore's Organized Mayhem!</a><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;">* Nominate 5 people and let them know you have done so. CHECK Well, I still have to let </span><br />
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<a href="http://www.yourdoctorswife.com/" style="line-height: normal;" target="_blank">Your Doctor's Wife</a><span style="line-height: normal;"> I feel like Emma and I have been friends for years. Her posts will have </span><br />
<span style="line-height: normal;">you cracking </span><span style="line-height: normal;">up </span><span style="line-height: normal;">whether you are a doctor, a wife, a doctor's wife, a doctor's husband, a nurse, </span><br />
<span style="line-height: normal;">an orderly, or just a guy named </span><span style="line-height: normal;">Ralph. </span><span style="line-height: normal;">She. Is. Funny. Check out </span><br />
<a href="http://www.yourdoctorswife.com/2012/03/show-me-your-juicy-boobs-please.html" style="line-height: normal;" target="_blank">Show me Your Juicy Boobs Please</a><span style="line-height: normal;">--it may be one of the funniest posts </span></div>
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<a href="http://www.livinginkelliesworld.com/2012/08/meno-poise.html" style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;" target="_blank"><span style="color: #779955; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">L</span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; font-size: small; line-height: normal;"><span style="line-height: normal;">iving in Kellie's World</span></span></a><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;"> Joe (and Kellie) are so funny and Joe does a great job </span><br />
<span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">of bringing us </span><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">into Kellie's world--a hilarious place to be, I must add. I was also lucky </span><br />
<span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">enough to win my first </span><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">(and only) blog prize from Joe--though that had no influence on </span><br />
<span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">me (yes, I </span><i style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">can</i><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;"> be bought and </span><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">I </span><i style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">do</i><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;"> love book stores (it was a GC for B&N. B-a-r-n-e-s </span><br />
<span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">and </span><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">N-o-b-l-e. It's a BOOK store. </span><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">A book is something you read. Before Kindle and i-Pads, </span><br />
<span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">books were used almost exclusively. There are PAGES...forget it.), but I'd like to think that </span><br />
<span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">$25 wouldn't </span><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">be quite enough for me to sell out. Make it thirty and we'll talk!) Check out </span><br />
<span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">his post </span><a href="http://www.livinginkelliesworld.com/2012/08/meno-poise.html" style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;" target="_blank">Meno-Poise</a><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">--I swear I don't only love it because I am living it right now...</span></div>
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<a href="http://daddyknowsless.blogspot.com/2012/10/ill-pick-nothing-and-like-it.html#comment-form" style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;" target="_blank">Daddy Knows Less</a><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;"> His post today would be worth looking at simply because </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">of his picture</span><a href="http://daddyknowsless.blogspot.com/2012/10/ill-pick-nothing-and-like-it.html#comment-form" style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;" target="_blank"> </a><a href="http://daddyknowsless.blogspot.com/2012/10/ill-pick-nothing-and-like-it.html#comment-form" style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;" target="_blank">of "Peanut" at the pumpkin patch</a><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">. CLASSIC.</span></div>
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<a href="http://underachievingdomesticgoddess.blogspot.com/2012/06/im-hazard-to-myself.html" style="line-height: normal;" target="_blank"><span style="color: #779955; line-height: normal;">T</span><span style="line-height: normal;">he Underachiever's Guide to being a Domestic Goddess</span></a><span style="line-height: normal;">--She is gorgeous AND funny--and she </span><br />
<span style="line-height: normal;">made sure she </span><span style="line-height: normal;">remembered me when I went off the grid. THAT is something! </span><br />
<a href="http://underachievingdomesticgoddess.blogspot.com/2012/06/im-hazard-to-myself.html" style="line-height: normal;" target="_blank">This post</a><span style="line-height: normal;"> really had me laughing--you will, too!</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: normal;">My SISTAH from another MISTAH...</span><a href="http://www.alittlelucidity.com/" style="line-height: normal;" target="_blank">A Little Lucidity</a><span style="line-height: normal;"> and I could chat for HOURS...and we </span><br />
<span style="line-height: normal;">have! </span><span style="line-height: normal;">She recently </span><span style="line-height: normal;">celebrated her one year Blogoversary. Hopefully that means she will be back </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">I have a big toe the size of Rhode Island.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">I have somehow been blessed with the most amazing friends anyone could </span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">ever hope to </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">have. really. It is actually a bit bizarre that wherever I go (even virtually on my blog!) </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">I meet THE most amazingly nice, helpful, and GIVING people. It ALWAYS happens and </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">I do not like to share my water bottle with ANYONE. EVER. Of course, when people </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">are looking and judging and my children are nearing dehydration, I will allow them to </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">drink, </span><span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">but that is RARE. In high school (you know...back when the first water bottles </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">were "invented," we brought bottles to our field hockey game. My friend did not have </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">one and she asked me for a sip. I watched the water go into her mouth and come right </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">back down into my Evian. needless to say, I gave her that bottle and was done sharing </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">I played field hockey for like fourteen seconds my senior year of high school. I was not good.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">I danced for like nine years, yet when I try to "Zumba" everyone runs for cover.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;">For years I would carry around Styrofoam McDonald's or Chik-fil-A cups full of water. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;">Students would tell me that I was hurting the environment. When I told them that I used </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;">the same cup for a week or two and washed it, I was told, "You are so Ghetto, Miss Corwin..." </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">My husband and I think we are on a sitcom. We BOTH expect to hear a laugh reel </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria, serif; line-height: normal;">whenever we say something we deem to be funny. We need help.</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-4691267270495229602012-10-04T07:23:00.000-04:002012-10-04T08:31:46.518-04:00A lesson in Chapstick<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
So when I taught I was always blessed enough to teach the most gorgeous and talented students. Sadly, I'm old enough that most of them are in grad school, working professional jobs, getting married, and having babies. Of course <i>some</i> of my students (very few, thank goodness) did the baby thing <i>while</i> I was teaching them, but that is for another day.<br />
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One of these beauties posted on facebook the other day and it made me laugh for two reasons. A. Because it was funny and 2. Because I had just posted about <a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2012/09/jennifer-three-thousand.html" target="_blank">Jennifer</a> and although her name is not Jennifer, she is DEFINITELY a natural beauty. Which brings me to her post:<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">When you tell your makeup-artist friend that you just want to wear Chapstick in your engagement photos, she responds with a saucy email written in the most god-awful fonts (including Comic Sans and Papyrus - yack).</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">You sully her trade, she'll sully yours right back. ;)</span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-38887119524899301842012-10-03T06:52:00.002-04:002012-10-03T06:52:26.518-04:00At least she's honest!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I don't know if <strike>both</strike> all of you will enjoy this as much as I did, but my children were so excited to tell me about the fact that they were able to use REAL voting booths at their school today.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-22870260206868602902012-09-30T21:59:00.000-04:002012-09-30T21:59:49.054-04:00Jennifer three thousand<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I just have to say that the best thing about being a SAH parent is the fact that the clock doesn't rule my life anymore (next to the fact that I get to be <i>home</i> with and for my children--I swear I mean that!). Not that I was ever to great at <i>listening</i> to the clock when it <i>did</i> rule my life, but I don't have that constant cloud hovering over my head telling me that I am disappointing...<i>everyone</i> and should always be doing something other than what I am actually doing.<br />
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Of course, I also love that I don't have to stress out about what to wear. That's not to say that I <i>shouldn't</i> stress out about that--at least <i>occasionally. </i>I mean, for <i>at least</i> two years I didn't even <i>look</i> in a mirror. Seriously. Can you imagine? I guess I had my mind on so many other things and was so worried about the appearance of everyone <i>else</i> in my family that it just didn't even occur to me to look. That and the fact that I knew I wouldn't like what I saw pretty much sealed it for me.<br />
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I decided recently that I would take the time to actually <i>look</i> at myself after my shower--to <i>look</i> at my hair if and when I brush it and to try my best to at least <i>attempt</i> to look like I care about my appearance. I figure if I actually make an effort and tell myself that I care, maybe my body will reward me. It can't <i>hurt</i>, right?<br />
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This new...<i>relationship</i>...I have with myself is proving to be time-consuming. I <i>like</i> being able to shower and get ready in ten minutes. I <i>like</i> being low maintenance. What I don't like? Looking like Molly from Mike and Molly-- but not from her role <i>as</i> Molly--from her role in the movie Bridesmaids--I don't remember her name, but she was HILARIOUS, though hilarity doesn't necessarily go hand in hand with hot. In fact, hilarious and hot tend to operate quite separately. He's a fair God...those who make you chortle or guffaw tend to not be models and those who are Brad Pitt pretty (yes, I know he's a...HE, but tell me he isn't pretty...SEE--you can't!) generally don't have people laughing 'til they pee. Of course, I hoped to be HILARIOUS (let's be honest--that ship has sailed!) AND hot (hot never even stopped on my doorstep), but evidently you can't just <i>will</i> it to happen.<br />
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I always wanted to be one of those natural beauties...you know...like Jennifer Garner and Jennifer Anniston. And Jennifer Lopez. And Jennifer-Love-Hewett (though maybe her...ladies...are less than...natural...) And pretty much every single Jennifer I have ever known (and I grew up in the seventies and eighties, so you <i>know</i> that is like an infinite number of Jennifers). I would name them all, but there isn't enough room or enough time. Plus, I'm pretty sure that would be creepy/stalker...y, so let's just leave it that (in my eyes, at least) those named Jennifer could roll out of bed each day without make-up, unshowered and unbrushed, and throw on grungy clothes and still look great--<i>hot</i> even.<br />
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I don't know why I wanted to have that girl next door look (unless the girl next door had a head full of frizzy hair and a proclivity for spilling--well--<i>everything</i> all over--well--<i>everything), </i>but it started in middle school. Although I wasn't even <i>allowed</i> to wear make up, I had some great friends who would help me to make my lashes electric blue or bright teal (gotta love the eighties!) and would help me remove it again before the walk home. Sure, I got caught <strike>most of</strike> <strike>some of</strike> occasionally. but it was worth it to have my slightly creepy science teacher sing, "Electric Blue" to me in class!<br />
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I had one friend who gave me a hard time every time she saw I was wearing make up and even when I wasn't. It got to the point that I would lie every time she snarkily (it's a thing) asked me if I had makeup on my eyes. I would stare her right in the eyes while fluttering my bright blue eyelashes and say, "NO!" I'm pretty sure I fooled <i>her</i>. (I never claimed to be too bright...)<i> </i>I don't know why it was her business or why I felt the need to lie, but I obviously wasn't too good at it! A victim of the eighties, I also remember using Final Net and Aqua Net like it would save my life (as I single-handedly took out the ozone) and I remember my father saying, "What guy is <i>ever</i> gonna want to run his fingers through <i>that</i>?! His hand'll get stuck--they'll have to amputate!" and although I had some snotty teenagery retort at the time, it really hit home with me. I <i>agreed</i> with him--and <b>no</b> teenager ( not even if her name is Jennifer) wants to <i>agree</i> with her father.<br />
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I became kind of ashamed of using make-up and tried to limit my product usage (though I <i>am</i> a product <i>whore</i>--<b>that</b> is a story for another day!). I would put brown or black mascara and eyeliner on my eyes and pretend like my eyes just <i>looked</i> like that. I'm not sure <i>who</i> I thought I was kidding--"No--I'm not wearing make-up! The smudgy brownish black stuff on my eyes is <i>naturally </i> a part of my face!" Why I thought it was better to have blotchy facial deformities rather than a little bit of make up on my face, I don't know--maybe because the deformities were natural? I told you--I never claimed to be too bright--to get into the psyche of <i>that </i>girl would be <i>quite</i> an adventure, one I would <i>not</i> want to endure alone!<br />
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Of course, if my mother had just named me Jennifer like all of those other mothers did in the seventies, I would be low-maintenance AND hot and wouldn't have had to have a secret relationship with eye make up. Who knows--I may have been HILARIOUS, too. </div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-66034184040254224462012-09-28T15:26:00.000-04:002012-09-28T15:26:02.495-04:00Would I trade my husband and children for it? Maybe not...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I love television--I really do. More than a normal person <i>should</i> love television. In fact, for the last few years, I have <i>lived</i> for television. I believe that TiVo...DVR...whatever is/was the most important invention of this century. I swear--I really do. At least for <i>my</i> family it is. Well, maybe not even my <i>entire</i> family (so relax Mr. McJudgerson--my children <i>aren't </i>TV-heads...but they definitely <i>could </i>be)--we try not to teach our children our horrible habits, but eventually...there will be <b>five</b> of us!<br />
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This obsession with television began in the late nineties, early (thousands?!)--right after I met my husband. As a side note, <i>most </i> of my bad habits came to me <i>after</i> meeting my husband. Coincidental? I think not. Of course, I (basically) stopped being a booze-hound (kind of) and I stopped bringing strange men home (for the most part), but I also stopped moving (unless it was in the direction of the refrigerator) and spent most of my free time watching shows and eating popcorn. THAT is what we do. It started in 1999 and I can honestly say that doing that is the one thing that has remained consistent in our lives. We used to have movie marathon weekends where we would get a barrel of popcorn (you <i>know</i> it's true--that thing is bigger than Rhode Island) from the movie theater (with layered butter and salt...I just threw up in my mouth a little bit, sorry...) and would rearrange our furniture so that we were DIRECTLY in front of the television and would stay there all weekend. Of course, we would leave for a few hours to sleep, but for the most part we were held hostage by our television and we loved it. In between all of our movies, we would watch our taped shows (THANK YOU inventor of DVR type things!) to clear up more space for <i>new </i>ones.<br />
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One show we tried not to ever miss was Alias. That. Show. Is (high-pitched squeal here) AWESOME. Sydney Bristow was my hero--and not just because she could rock a purple wig (though she <i>really</i> could!). About a year or two ago (maybe even three now...it all gets lost once it hits my brain...) a fb friend posted something about the show <i>Alias</i>. It was when I was <i>just</i> getting the hang of facebook (as if I <i>ever did</i> get the hang of it!) and the whole posting on walls thing was foreign to me. I <i>thought </i>I was posting on <i>his </i>wall when I commented something like, "L-O-V-E Sydney Bristow--she is (high-pitched squeal here) AWESOME and my hero!" Not so embarrassing on <i>his </i>wall since he was actually <i>discussing </i>her. Unfortunately, I posted it as my <i>status. </i>So people who didn't know me or worse, <i>did</i> would read: "Nika Corwin: L-O-V-E Sydney Bristow--she is (high-pitched squeal here) AWESOME and my hero!" Kind of a freak, right?! At least now you know that I am serious about <i>Alias</i> (if not certifiable)-- if you didn't watch it, I am certain you can get in on Netflix. DO IT. You won't be sorry. Unless you <i>are</i> and in that case <i>please</i> don't tell me!<br />
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Another show that was on around that time was called, <i>Eyes</i>. We <i>loved</i> that show. It had the guy from <i>Wings</i> (yes, I mentioned <i>Wings</i> because who DIDN'T love THAT show?!)--the serious brother-guy who is now on <i>Private Practice</i> (ask me how many grams are in a kilometer and I'll tell you, "Orange," but <i>this</i> I know) was in this show and he was (insert high pitched squeal here...all together now...) AWESOME! (well done!) The problem? <i>Eyes </i> was taken off the air after too few episodes. I don't really want to remember exactly what was happening and what went unresolved in the show or it will upset me again, just know that we were (are) so annoyed that we didn't get the time we <strike>wanted</strike> <strike>needed</strike> deserved with <i>Eyes.</i> My husband still mentions it like an old friend who doesn't keep in touch and refuses to get on facebook. So sad. Moment of silence please.<br />
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Thank you.<br />
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Another show that tore our hearts out (I seriously need professional help. The first step is admitting there is a problem and I <i>l-oooo-v-e</i> hanging out on the first step!) was <i>Studio...54? 64? 60?</i>--the one with Chandler from <i>Friends, </i><b>not</b> the one with naked people in it. It was about the making of an SNL type of show and it was (I think you know where I am going here...high pitched squeal) AWESOME! We were so sad to see it go and tried to seek counseling over it. Instead, we found <i>more</i> shows to watch and tried not to get too attached--just in case they left us, too.<br />
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Some of our favorites through the years (and by "favorites," I mean those that encompassed our lives in such a way that we actually <i>felt</i> like they were family were, <i>Friends </i>(duh), 24 (Seriously...Jack Bower and Sydney Bristow need to team up...) which I deemed to be the best show of all time that first season. And the next. And most of the rest...it ALWAYS had me quite literally (and not in the way that it does not actually <i>mean</i> literally) on the edge of my seat clenching anything that could remotely...<i>clench</i> in my body until that last second ticked away and I had to wait for scenes from the next week's episode. The same proved true for <i>Lost,</i> though we lost (punny!)some of our recordings when we moved (I'm <i>still</i> not over it--), so I need to rent the final season.<br />
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We watch all of the CSIs--most of the time to make fun of the placement of sunglasses on the nose before a corny pun is uttered over a bloody body. Criminal Minds is a good one--though too many episodes have taken place in places where I've lived. C-R-E-E-P-Y. There are so many more...it really is disturbing how many shows we <i>do </i>and <i>have</i> watched, but it's what we like.<br />
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When I was teaching I would often times refer to my shows (<i>House</i> for example...so sad it's gone!) to help validate whatever we were discussing that day. I had students tell me that English teachers aren't <i>supposed</i> to like television. They claimed that they never had a teacher who <i>promoted</i> television before they met me. I need to clarify...I'm not <i>against </i>reading--in fact, I <i>love</i> to read. I have stayed up way too many nights because I couldn't put a book down until it was finished, but while teaching I didn't have that luxury. I needed to go to bed at a reasonable time and I needed someone to do the thinking for me at the end of the day. Sometimes you <i>just</i> want to be entertained and you don't want to do <i>anything </i>for it. That's why I <i>love </i>television.<br />
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Because of this love (and because of the fact that<a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2012/09/i-lost-my-funny.html" target="_blank"> I lost my funny </a>), I am going to [try to] devote one day a week to television. I may talk about shows that made me laugh out loud ('cause that is really a thing) (<i>Friends</i> shouldn't even have to be mentioned...it should be understood.) like <i>New Adventures of Old Christine or Everybody Loves Raymond, </i>or those that make me laugh <i>now,</i> like <i>The Middle </i>or <i>Modern Family. </i>I may write about shows that everyone should watch, regardless of sex (no--not whether you are <i>having</i> it...) like <i>Bunheads</i> or <i>Ally McBeal </i>(THAT was a blast from the past, right?!) or shows that very few people discovered like...well, I guess that could be <i>Bunheads </i>again, though there are way too many shows for me to be listing doubles.<br />
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I know what you are thinking--this will be the only time I "discuss" television because history states that I do not EVER stick with a plan on here. Well, you got me. That is why I didn't pick a day. Perhaps if I give myself an <i>entire</i> week to make it happen it will...actually <i>happen.</i><br />
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Until then, I have some research to do. I'll start by watching <i>Friends...</i>and maybe grabbing some popcorn...<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-70729737164436985622012-09-27T17:00:00.000-04:002012-09-27T17:01:53.868-04:00"OOOOHAYYYYEEEUUGGGH"<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I had surgery in May so I stopped exercising. I guess I didn't stop <i>completely.</i> We have a pool and we were in it almost every day this summer and I have a rule (with myself) that I need to be moving constantly while I am in there--leg lifts, running in place, laps, lunges...anything that keeps me moving. The problem is, my body hates me and unless I am in pain or visibly uncomfortable, it rejects any of the benefits of whatever I am doing.<br />
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The same thing happened last summer. I was in the pool and moving every day and still gained over ten pounds because I didn't take out extra time to exercise. I joined the Y and lost a little, but when I stopped for surgery, I gained ten more. I told you. My body <i>hates</i> me. I have to set extra time aside in my day to <i>only</i> focus on exercise for it to count. My body is like a spoiled child--we'll call it Veruca Salt (although it more closely resembles <b style="background-color: white; font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">Violet Beauregarde or </b><b style="background-color: white; font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">Augustus Gloop) </b><span style="background-color: white; font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">and if I don't show it <i>extra </i>attention, it shuts down on me. It doesn't matter if I spend each day running and playing or swimming and jumping around with my children--if I haven't inconvenienced or hurt myself in some way, it doesn't count as exercise and I pack on the pounds. Stupid body.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">I planned on going back to the Y, but there is a gym in town that offers more classes for a lower price, so I decided to go there instead. I LOVE my new gym, but there is one catch--all of my...classmates...are senior citizens. Senior citizens who could wipe the floor with my exhausted middle-aged body and would gladly do so if I mess with their...chi.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">I started going regularly to my new gym the second week in September. My very first class was Yoga with the body ball. You are going to need a back story here. I may be the most uncoordinated person...well...EVER, so balancing on a body ball should have set off alarms for me, but I forged ahead confidently. You would think that my nine? Ten? years of dancing and my dance classes in college would give me the background necessary to conquer stretching and meditation, but you would be wrong. In fact, in my twenties I belonged to a gym in downtown Buffalo and "spinning" and step aerobics were introduced for the first time. I was maybe twenty-five and in pretty good shape (though I would NEVER have thought so at the time!), but I'm pretty sure that I took out a line of dancers when I was supposed to be pivoting or stepping or spinning...and that was when I was IN shape--imagine me now!</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">It's also important to note that I went out ALL the time when I was in my twenties. All. The. Time. In fact, it started to feel like a job (IF ONLY...), I went out so much. And I danced. At least three nights a week you would find me rocking out (or crazily and grotesquely flapping my limbs) for hours until some cranky DJ told me that I didn't have to go home, but I couldn't stay there. I never thought of it as exercise until I went to a wedding recently and felt like my legs may buckle beneath me before the end of the first song. I'm not sure if it was the alcohol or the fact that I went to the gym regularly <i>and</i> went dancing most nights that made me able to endure it then and perhaps my body is rebelling against me now that I <i>don't</i> do all of that. Or <i>any</i> of that! </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">Of course, every time I got into a relationship, I would stop going to the gym and stop going out "clubbing," and would spend more time eating out and leading a sedentary lifestyle. Every time the relationships ended, I would get back to the gym and back to going out and would lose the weight again. I met my husband through a former boyfriend who worked with him (there are <i>sooo many</i> stories from that time that should <i>not</i> be told!)--we'll call him Joe. Joe and I went to see Patch Adams (does anyone even <i>remember</i> that movie? Robin Williams is a doctor with a clown nose...? Anyway...) one evening. We were walking up the stairs to our seats and I [somehow] tripped over...nothing...and ended up on my butt, all the while yelling, "OOOOHAYYYYEEEUUGGGH" because I was convinced I was going to spill the popcorn and drink and because I often let out little yells when I fall. Or when I hurt myself. Or when something surprises me. Really I am just a noisy person. Luckily, there were only like three other couples there, though that didn't assuage my embarrassment much. What's funny is the fact that my husband <i>loves</i> this story. Mostly because because he finds it funny that "Joe" had me carrying everything in the first place--and also the fact that I have a similar fall <i>at least</i> once a week.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">In fact, about a year and a half later--a month before our wedding--my husband and I were eating outside at a restaurant in Charlotte when a bee started buzzing around us. Our table was directly in front of the window of the restaurant, so everyone inside could see (and hear) what was happening. I got a little panicky (I do that) about the bee--no, I am not allergic, I just have an unnatural fear of bees. My legs were wrapped around the legs of the plastic chair, so when I tried to get up (after the bee had the audacity to <i>land</i> on me), my feet got tangled up in the chair and...</span></span><span style="font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">"OOOOHAYYYYEEEUUGGGH!" I was on the ground with the chair <i>and</i> the table on top of me. I saw everyone in the restaurant leap up to see if I was okay and some cars in the parking lot pulled over to help me. I still have the scar on my forearm where I scraped off a good chunk of my skin and my knee and foot were pretty bloody as well. As for the BEE...well, he stuck around to laugh at my wounds for a minute and then flew off to attack some other innocent bystander. My husband assessed the situation and calmly observed, "Well...at least you didn't get stung!"</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">All of this brings me back to Yoga and the body ball. And the senior citizens. My first day, the teacher greeted me and gave me a ball. I set it up with my mat and left to get a drink which took <i>maybe</i> three minutes. By the time I got back an eighty-eight-year-old bully had taken my ball, was sitting on it, and was looking at me like, "So what are you gonna do about it?" This woman could barely stand upright (that is not an insult--I have my <i>own </i>troubles with standing), but I felt confident that she would cut me before I could say, "Wheel of Fortune" if I even addressed her thievery. I decided to let it go and opted to not make eye contact. Bitches be scary. (That's got to give me <i>some</i> street cred, right?!)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">I learned my lesson for the next class and did not leave after I got my ball. You would think that there would be nothing further, but again, you would be wrong. We were practicing different...exercises? in balance before class even officially started. I am pretty sure it was the one where we center our backs on the ball and then lift one leg at a time and then both legs. I'm not really sure if that is what we were <i>supposed</i> to do, but that <i>is</i> what I did--until I <i>didn't</i> any more and the room echoed with my </span></span><span style="font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">"OOOOHAYYYYEEEUUGGGH" as I tumbled over, taking out the leader of the geriatric Cryps, hitting my head on the PVC pipes that are used to house the body balls (two of which came bouncing down on top of me), and scraping my knee and forearm (strangely enough on the same scars that were from my bee experience) in the process. As everyone rushed to my aid (including my Cryps friend who actually had balancing issues herself--not related to <i>my</i> fall and she was fine), but I was quick to send them away noting that it was more embarrassing than painful. Luckily for me, they all were adamant that <i>everyone</i> falls at <i>least</i> once and I shouldn't worry at all. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: sans-serif; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">Until I take out the geriatric Tai Chi team...</span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-17852694928338323392012-09-26T12:10:00.000-04:002012-09-26T12:10:49.620-04:00I lost my funny<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I have a problem. I know...I have <i>many</i> problems, but this problem is making the whole blogging thing not work for me. I lost my funny. It's gone. The thing is, if I knew where it went, I could get it back, but even that is too much for my brain to handle.<br />
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I miss it. I wrote a few posts last week that I never published because they just weren't that great. I don't know if it is because I was gone for so long that I forgot <i>how</i> to be funny, or if it is because I am running out of material (though the three maniacs <i>do </i>make me laugh every single day several times a day. Unless...egads...perhaps I was never funny in the <i>first</i> place...bite your tongue)!<br />
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I am just having trouble translating each event on paper. Too many of the funny things are location jokes--you had to be there to find them funny. Which is a shame because I feel quite certain that you would laugh. Guffaw even at times. I know you <i>think</i> you don't guffaw, but you do. And if you were here for some of the happenings with the maniacs, you would recognize your guffaw. Or chortle. Only, these days, my material is lucky to get a slight giggle and I am pretty sure that even that giggle is meant for something that happened earlier that was <i>much</i> funnier than my writing.<br />
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Usually I would sit at the computer and start typing with no idea of where I was headed (which was pretty evident in my writing). Now I'm finding that I may need some direction. Please share any ideas or topics you either want to address or you think will bring me my funny back. Don't be offended if I don't use your topic immediately--the words aren't as plentiful these days, so it may take some time.<br />
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If you would practice your guffaw or chortle now, I would really appreciate it. Seriously--now. I <i>know</i> it's not funny, but if you practice doing it every time I write something it will become automatic for you to laugh at it and would take a lot of pressure off of me. Thanks. Hopefully tomorrow the funny will find me, since I'm clearly incapable of finding <i>it.</i><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-17237132770414212612012-09-20T14:46:00.000-04:002012-09-20T14:46:06.175-04:00This is NOT a date!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Yesterday was <i>not</i> a good day for my son. He just woke up with an attitude and when I told him to go upstairs to find his "nice" self he told me that his "nice self" ran away and would only come back if I got him a 3DS. He will be missed...<br />
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So after getting in trouble like forty-seven times, we all went out to wait for the bus. He barely gave me his cheek to kiss and then he was gone. I hoped that after school would prove to be better, but that didn't pan out for me either. At dinner he got in trouble for antagonizing his sisters and not sitting at the table properly. He then got in trouble for tackling his sister and making her cry. Not. A. Good. Day.<br />
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When I tried to tuck him in, he refused to look at me. I crawled next to him and tried to put my head under his face--to see his eyes and make him laugh. His response?<br />
"Eeww--I don't know <i>what</i> you think you are doing, but I am <i>not</i> going to kiss you on the lips. This is NOT a date!"<br />
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And to think that at one time he wanted to<a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2012/09/kids-and-politics.html" target="_blank"> <i>marry </i>me!</a></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-69261838741872681522012-09-18T16:23:00.002-04:002012-09-18T16:23:50.331-04:00My little rule follower<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
My Brayden cannot help himself--he is the town crier and it isn't because he <i>wants</i> to be a snitch. He is a cross between Peter Brady (or was it Bobby? It was definitely Bobby) as the crossing guard and Sheldon Cooper as...Sheldon Cooper.<br />
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The thing is, my Brayden is a rule follower. Unless they are <i>my</i> rules--then he becomes the negotiator, but that's for a different day. Being a rule follower doesn't make you the most popular friend in <i>any</i> grade, but it is especially frowned upon in the younger grades. Unfortunately, Brayden has done this since he was two. He would toddle around finding injustices and blatant-rule-disregarders (it's a thing) and report to me so that I could take action.<br />
Examples?<br />
"Grandma is wearing her shoes in the house! Grandma, you aren't supposed to wear shoes in the house!"<br />
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"Grandpa didn't finish all of his dinner and he is eating dessert. Grandpa, if you're not hungry for dinner then you're not hungry for dessert!"<br />
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Because of his track record, this story did not surprise me:<br />
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"Mom--J'ron was mean to me today."<br />
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"Really? Why would he be mean to you?"<br />
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"I don't know--I told him on the way to school that he needed to put his seat belt on and he said he didn't have to, so I told him that if he didn't I would have to tell the bus driver."<br />
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"?!"<br />
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"...he told me it was none of my business and he didn't <i>need</i> a seat belt, but I know that you <i>do</i> need to wear a seat belt to be safe, so I told the bus driver and she told him that if he doesn't wear it from now on he will be in trouble. THEN he was mean to me <i>all </i>day!<br />
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"Really? And you can't think of <i>any </i>reason why he might be upset with you?"<br />
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"No. And when he got on the bus and in his seat he held up his seat belt and said, 'Are you happy?!' in a really mean voice and then he wouldn't talk to me."<br />
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"And you <i>really</i> have no idea why?"<br />
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"Nope."<br />
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"Maybe you should go in tomorrow and tell him that you didn't mean for him to get in trouble, you were just concerned about his safety."<br />
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"Well, I kind of <i>did</i> want him to get in trouble because that seems to be the only way he will learn."<br />
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He may not have any friends, but his classmates will be the <i>safest</i> group of children <i>ever</i>--whether they like it or not!<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-7978518123638873492012-09-15T08:07:00.000-04:002012-09-15T08:07:47.698-04:00Kids and politics<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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“Show me a young Conservative and I'll show you someone with no heart. Show me an old Liberal and I'll show you someone with no brains.”</h1>
<span style="background-color: white; color: #181818; font-family: georgia, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">― </span><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/14033.Winston_Churchill" style="background-color: white; color: #666600; font-family: georgia, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; text-decoration: none;">Winston Churchill</a><br />
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What are your thoughts on Churchill's quote? I know that <i>I</i> get less Liberal each year and I see it around me as well. <a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2012/02/when-im-eighty-five.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">My grandfather (remember him?)</a> was a Democrat (if you can <b>believe</b> it!) when my grandmother was alive. At least <b>she</b> was a Democrat and I am pretty sure that he did what she wanted him to do, but that was over a decade ago. He was still a bit cranky then (that's his game), but he didn't spend his days watching Hannity and Beck, so there was room for reasoning then. Having children made a difference because now I want policies that won't enable my children to slack off and be rewarded for mediocrity. I suppose THAT makes me conservative. I also believe that people who truly need help should get it. THAT makes me a Democrat.<br />
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My friend, Tom Jones (not the lounge singer, though that would be *insert lilty voice here* <b>awesome</b>!) is a staunch Republican (I think mostly because he likes to fight--no--banter--with others about politics) as were most of our friends in Virginia--and Montana come to think of it--and he always told me that the fact that I'm an Independent means that I'm too weak to make a decision. He was [kind of] joking, so don't get riled up over that. Also, he may be right.<br />
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I feel like it is the teacher in me. Teachers are constantly asked to see every part of a situation and <i>English</i> teachers spend their days reading and analyzing behavior. Sometimes it is the behavior of the students and sometimes it is the behavior of the characters in the reading, but looking at all points of view is required to make a final assertion. That is how I treat most things that I do and it is definitely how I approach politics. Of course, if I feel like someone is being bullied, I sometimes get cloudy vision and pull for that person to win--pulling for the underdog--how very <i>Democratic </i>of me, right?<br />
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So my friend posted this the other day (about her son who is...six?):<br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">My son wants to earn some money to buy a toy. I gave him a small job to start the process. He said, "This job doesn't feel very lucky." I told him, "You are very lucky if you have a paying job. That's a good thing." He said, "Why can't you just give me the money without the job." I told him he sounded like a democrat. He said, "Don't call me that hateful word!" lol (sorry dem friends. too funny not to share)</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span>Funny, right? It reminded me of a conversation I had with <i>my</i> son when he was four:<br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"Mommy, why do you have to pay the doctor EVERY time you go?"</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"Well, because when someone does a service of some kind for you and it is their job, then you need to pay them."</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: lucida grande, tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><span style="line-height: 18px;">"I think that people shouldn't have to pay the doctor--I think the doctor should always make sick people feel better because that's what doctor's do."</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: lucida grande, tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><span style="line-height: 18px;">"You should run for office."</span></span><br />
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And this one we had shortly thereafter:<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"Mommy, I want to marry YOU."</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span>
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"Well, that is very nice, but you can't marry me."</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"But I want to--why can't I?"</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"Because moms can't marry their children. It doesn't end well."</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"Who says? I should be able to marry you if I want to marry you."</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"Well, I don't want to marry you, so we don't need to fight about it."</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span>
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"Why don't you want to marry me?</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"I'm already married--trust me--it's enough for me."</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"Then I want to marry (his friend--we'll call him Eliot) Eliot. Can I marry Eliot?"</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"Hmmm...in some states."</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"What about here [Montana]?"</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span>
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"Nope. And not in Virginia [where we used to live] either." </span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span>
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"Why not? I don't want anyone telling me who I can marry!"</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span>
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">"Luckily we don't have to make this decision <i>today</i> then."</span><br />
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Regardless of your political agenda, isn't it funny to look at "hot topics" through a child's eyes? Do you have similar chats with your children? Do you try to avoid politics altogether or are you hoping to raise a little Alex P. Keaton (PLEASE know the reference...!)? Will you guide your children, but ultimately let them make their political decisions on their own, or will you school them on your politics and let them know that there <i>is </i>no other choice?<br />
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My friend (you know--the one whose child I exploited above) is fantastic (AND a Republican--who'da thunk it, right?!) and although her child is headed in what she deems to be the right direction, I know she isn't brainwashing him into taking on her beliefs. I say that because I actually do have friends who <i>are</i> practically brainwashing their children and I'd like to know if this is commonplace and what your thoughts are on it. I'd also like to know if anyone else's children force them into political conversations on a regular basis...because mine does it daily and quite honestly, I don't have it in me anymore!<br />
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Maybe Churchill's quote is right--I <i>have</i> complained about losing pieces of my brain each time I delivered a baby (I believe they were holding onto my brain and that is why it hurt so much. Delivering a <i>person</i> is bad enough, but trying to expel part of your own <i>brain--horrible!)</i>...and I <i>did</i> have way too much heart when I was younger. If only I could find a balance. I'll work on that <strike>if I ever</strike> when I find my brain again.Maybe by then we will have <i>eliminated</i> bipartisanship altogether and we will be working <i>as a country </i>to fix our country. And maybe Tom Jones (yes, the lounge singer) will be my friend.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-2289692599857279422012-09-14T21:52:00.004-04:002012-09-17T15:58:00.128-04:00Mouths of babes...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Addison: "Bwrayden, I can't find my folder [for school]--do you know where it is?"<br />
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Brayden: "No."<br />
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Addison (getting upset): "But I have to find it! Ryan do YOU know where it is?"<br />
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Ryan: "No."<br />
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Addison (frantically): "Where IS it?!"<br />
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Brayden: "Why are you getting so upset?"<br />
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Addison (exasperated): "Because I don't want to end up like YOU two..."<br />
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I hope this is even half as funny as it was when it actually happened this morning--I love that the five-year-old already knows she needs to be more together than the rest of us!</div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-811344823179915402012-09-13T21:22:00.000-04:002012-09-13T21:22:59.206-04:00The OTHER "C" word<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Sadly, everyone reading this (or should I say, "You," since there may only be ONE of you? I will operate under the assumption that at least my closest friends and relatives feel obligated (don't care how you get here) to read and follow my ramblings, so I'll stick with "Everyone...") knows at least one person who has or has been affected by the "C" word. No--not <i>that </i>"C" word--what kind of blog do you think I'm running here? Don't answer.<br />
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The "C" word I'm talking about is Cancer and I hate, hate, <i>HATE</i> that I am devoting a whole entry to this because I feel like "C" is one of those terrorists who wants to be famous for destroying lives and it does not deserve anything more from us. I feel like "C" touches more lives each year and it has to stop. Sit back for a second and think about all of the people you know who have/had the "C" word invade their lives. I've mentioned what a <a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2012/04/six-degrees-of-me.html" target="_blank">small world I think it is</a> (when I do that it is because I want you to click on the words so it will bring you to that post...I looked at yesterday's blog and you can't even tell the link is there. Anyway...), but the "C" word is making it smaller--and not in a good way at all.<br />
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I met up with one of my closest and dearest friends this summer (after not seeing or talking to her for over a decade) and as she was telling me how she beat breast cancer (in the years we lost touch). I felt awful that I wasn't there for her during that time, but she was the amazing and strong woman I know her to be and kicked the "C" word's butt. This is what I hate. Well, cancer is what I hate, but what I <i>really</i> hate is that this is going on in my head:<br />
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"You had breast cancer? So did my aunt...maybe you know her? She beat it too!" or worse, "You lost your grandmother/uncle/stepfather to cancer? So did I!" and the worst of all, "Your child has cancer? I have a few other friends who have children with cancer, too!"<br />
Like it is a <i>good</i> thing or something. I am always excited to bring people I like together--I've always been one to try to fix up my friends, but I certainly don't want "C" to be the reason my friends come together. Sadly, it has gotten to that point--not a day goes by that I don't hear about <i>someone</i> finding out that they or someone they know has "C" of one form or another, and it's unnerving.<br />
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Let me clarify--the reason why I "fix up" people who are dealing with/have dealt with "C" is so that they can find support. I truly believe that if you take any situation, good or bad, those who are able to communicate and/or/commiserate with others are going to do so much better than those who don't. Plus, when you are in a situation like that it must feel like you are alone in the world and like no one could possibly understand what you are enduring, so what better way to cope than to be able to communicate with someone who actually <i>does</i> know a little bit about what it is like for you?<br />
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I have several friends ("several" should not be the word used) who have children--babies--who are fighting one form of cancer or another and I pray for them every day. I don't think I really have any pull up there--but I figure it certainly cannot hurt (I'm not <i>that</i> bad, am I?! Don't answer THAT, either.) I remember when one friend found out that her child has "L_word" and I contacted my other friend who was a pro at that point to see if she could help the first mom in ways that I knew I could not. I think about that--"PRO--" and I get pissed for her. She didn't <i>ask</i> to be a pro. I am pretty sure she is a pro at most things she does--she is that type of person--but I'm pretty sure that her ability to rock this situation is something she would <i>gladly</i> give up. Every time I try to type something encouraging to her (she seriously is one of the strongest and most amazing people I know), I think that if I were her I would think, "Yea--noted, great--thanks. I am so glad that I am in this shitty place where I need to be strong and "YAY ME" I'm doing it--heck--I'm even a <i>"PRO</i>," but it sucks and I don't want to hear how freakin' inspirational I am ANY more...I just want my child to be well and I want to try to get back to just living--without the constant worry, without the constant trips to the ER, without the "C" word taking over my life..."<br />
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I think that is what I would think. I don't know and hope I do not ever have to know, but that's the thing--why is it that <i>I </i>have been spared for now? Is it because I am too weak to handle it? Maybe, but that hardly seems fair. Kelly Clarkson made famous the cliche about what isn't killing us is making us stronger, but punishing someone because they are <i>too</i> strong? I can't believe that is the case.<br />
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I do worry all the time--I feel like "C" is lurking under my sink (in all of the cleaners that I <i style="text-decoration: line-through;">never rarely </i>sometimes use. I feel like it is in my produce--I can <i>taste</i> it on my apples. I feel like it is in all of our food and it is just waiting for me to let my guard down so that it can be <i>my </i>turn to prove how strong <i>I</i> am. So many mothers--"Momcologists" they call themselves--fight and wrestle with "C" on a daily basis, I feel like it would be arrogant to think that <i>my family</i> will be spared. I know you do what you have to do, but I am no "Momcologist..." I'm not even a "Mommyatrician." I'm barely making it as a <i>mom</i>--without any curve balls.<br />
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I've been existential in my thinking lately--wondering why we are on earth anyway and believing that this is only our "trial run--" like maybe <i>this</i> is hell or purgatory or whatever and as long as we don't <i>completely</i> screw it up, the <i>better</i> life is what would be our heaven. I think I just heard a few people click off their computers right there--those who think I am butchering religion <i>and</i> those who think this is too religious-- noted. I guess it's my coping mechanism for loss or the pain I see others enduring. I tell myself that if they have to suffer in this life, then their next life will be so much better than this. It's a theory...<br />
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I am always thinking about this topic, but I wanted to write about it after seeing a post that one of my "Momcologist" friends wrote on facebook, It read:<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">6 months left of treatment and I wonder 1) is the cancer gone for good? 2) will there be any lasting side effects? 3) will *child (name has been removed so that he won't be appalled at being connected to a woman with such <i>horrible </i>writing skills) </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">be able to go right into kindergarten after being frozen in time since he was 20 months old? 4) will I be able to start a new career at 40+? 5) how do I/what does it mean to process the last 3.5 years? 6) am I going to have a total breakdown once I let my guard down? Crap. It's surprising how intimidating the next step is. However, I'm getting ahead of myself. 6 months feels like the day after tomorrow, but a lot can happen in the meantime. For now we keep on keepin' on.</span>
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The responses?<br />
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<span style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">My hopes for you: 1)YES!, 2) NO, 3) Absolutely because he's creative, smart and resilient, 4)YES - you have done this before and will do it again because you are talented and brilliant, 5) slowly, 6) maybe, but that's ok because it could be a needed release. Sending lots of love and hope for a clear bill of health for "Child" soon! Pumpkin Spice Lattes at Starbucks coming soon, right? Treat yourself to one often.</span>
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<span style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">Love and hugs "Momcologist!"</span><br />
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<span id=".reactRoot[103].[1][2][1]{comment4504169880151_5366372}..[1]..[1]..[0].[2]..[0]" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">You are a brave mother have faith in the universe -"Child" is one fortunate boy to have your love</span><br />
<span id=".reactRoot[103].[1][2][1]{comment4504169880151_5366372}..[1]..[1]..[0].[2]..[2]" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">Many blessings on your journey...</span>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id=".reactRoot[103].[1][2][1]{comment4504169880151_5366394}..[1]..[1]..[0].[2]" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">"Momcologist," I hear you on that one, though the one who keeps me up at night is the one I married. Thinking of you.</span>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><span id=".reactRoot[103].[1][2][1]{comment4504169880151_5366459}..[1]..[1]..[0].[1]"> </span><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id=".reactRoot[103].[1][2][1]{comment4504169880151_5366459}..[1]..[1]..[0].[2]">I wish I lived closer to you so I could take you out for a spa day! Lots of hugs and love are being sent to you!</span>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><br /></span></span>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span id=".reactRoot[103].[1][2][1]{comment4504169880151_5366666}..[1]..[1]..[0].[1]"> </span><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id=".reactRoot[103].[1][2][1]{comment4504169880151_5366666}..[1]..[1]..[0].[2]">Keep on keepin' on is all you can do. 6 months! Amazing! I think of and pray for you guys often.</span>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><br /></span></span></span>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><br /></span></span></span>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span id=".reactRoot[103].[1][2][1]{comment4504169880151_5366742}..[1]..[1]..[0].[1]"> "Momcologist,"</span><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id=".reactRoot[103].[1][2][1]{comment4504169880151_5366742}..[1]..[1]..[0].[2]"> you very well may be the strongest and bravest person I know. Whatever these months bring you, (and with all of the people praying for you, I anticipate the best of news) I know you (AND "Child") will be able to handle it because you are fighters. I imagine when all is said and done you may need (and will have earned) time to break down, but whether you take an hour, a day, a week, or a month, you will bounce back to the strong amazing woman you are. Keep on keepin' on my friend--six months will go by before you know it and I pray that those months will be good to you all! And ANYONE would be lucky to have you in whatever career you choose!</span>
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* Why is mine always the longest?! I'm sensing a pattern here...! Sorry--the rest of the comments...<br />
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<span style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">Lady, you hit the nail on the head! This is exactly how I was feeling. You are in my thoughts and prayers ALWAYS!!!! Let that guard down a bit and LIVE!!!! You deserve it!</span>
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<span style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">Yes I can just imagine all those thoughts going through your mind. One day at a time ! Always thinking of you and the family.</span>
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<span style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">1) I sure hope so! 2) I sure hope not 3) The fact that his mother is on his side and gets that it might be a challenge for him is one of the greatest assets he could have if it is 4) You're really over 40??? Seriously??? And you're one of the brightest most accomplished people I know, so I can't imagine you not making it work. 5) In small steps and there may be a lot of them--you've been through SO MUCH! 6) Maybe you won't let your guard down until you're sure there's a safety net under you--and even then you won't need it...but if you do need it, it will be there. You can always call me, for one, and I bet you can call all the other people who posted before me.</span>
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* This one [above] was a bit longer. Better...and longer...<br />
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<span style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">Yes, it will be cured and gone. My friend at work has a son exactly the same age as my daughter. The son had leukemia around the same age as Luc and made a full recovery. It took a few years and was obviously stressful but they came through and you will too. And yes you can go back to work at 40+. My partner is trying now at 46 after 7 years at home raising kids and fighting his own tumor. But all is good just keep on moving!</span>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id=".reactRoot[103].[1][2][1]{comment4504169880151_5367110}..[1]..[1]..[0].[2]">"Momcologist," if you have made it this far with as much grace and strength as you have, I am fully confident that you will continue on.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">You're a very strong person - I admire you!</span>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><br /></span></span></span>
<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}">"Momcologist!" You and your beautiful family are in my prayers EVERY day.... "Child" is strong and resilient and you are too mama! I know great and amazing things are to come.... xoxo
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><br /></span></span></span>
<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}">MOMCOLOGIST'S RESPONSE: Thank you so much, everyone. When sometimes it seems that things (e.g. civil society) are crumbling down all around, I only need to look to you, the wisest and most compassionate friends a person could have, to restore my faith! Keeping on with deep breaths and the mantra "just be." [Good heavens, I am high on drama today. I will not edit. I will not edit. :)]
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span id=".reactRoot[103].[1][2][1]{comment4504169880151_5367842}..[1]..[1]..[0].[1]"> </span><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id=".reactRoot[103].[1][2][1]{comment4504169880151_5367842}..[1]..[1]..[0].[2]">Keep on keepin, u made it through this - u can handle anything!!</span>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><br /></span></span></span></span>
<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}">Sometimes you can just take it one day at a time. Enjoy all the special moments........ and endure the hard ones....
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><br /></span></span></span></span>
<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span id=".reactRoot[103].[1][2][1]{comment4504169880151_5368967}..[1]..[1]..[0].[1]"> </span><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id=".reactRoot[103].[1][2][1]{comment4504169880151_5368967}..[1]..[1]..[0].[2]">Having gone through the same thing...I have a bit of experience with this. 1) iyou'll never know, but don't worry until you ahve something to worry about? 2) You'll never know, but as with the cancer itself, deal with them if/when they come.3) heck (Censored) yea. "Girl Child" was in pre-k while on treatment. it will be scary as hell though. Just let the teachers know and you'll make it through. 4) why not?? 5) in time. 6) you'll have many. but it's not because your guard is down, it's because life will happen and there's no way to avoid it. Somethings you'll surf though and others you'll get caught in the surf. you'll be fine though. You've gotten this far. [Other commenter] is right. deal with each day as it comes and just know you have support and you're not in this alone.</span>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" style="background-color: #edeff4; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}">Thoughts and prayers continue for you and your family "Momcologist."</span></span></span></span></span><br />
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In the three (four?) years since we reconnected on facebook, this is the closest this mom has come to complaining about her situation. This is the closest she has come to showing her uncertainty about what the future holds and the closest she has come to showing her fear, anger, or helplessness--at least for others to see. As evidenced by the outpouring of comments, she and her family are extremely loved and have so much support. It's disheartening to see just how many others are going through the same thing since "C" touches so many lives, but there is no doubt that these people are loved and supported. The fact that they have touched so many lives shows what amazing people they are. Reading this makes me feel guilty. So. Very. Guilty.<br />
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I should appreciate every single second with my children. I should be happy that we fight about wearing a bicycle helmet when others are fighting about where to stick the needles. I should be happy that my children are <i>here </i>and <i>healthy</i> enough to get lectured about the importance of their vegetables when others are too sick from chemotherapy to keep down <i>anything</i>. I should be happy that my daughter is able to move around quickly enough to throw her lunch out in the cafeteria before anyone notices that she didn't <i>eat</i> any of it when some are confined to a hospital bed and haven't run in days...months...years... I should relish in the fact that my youngest is able to yell loudly enough for people down the street to come running because they think she is being abducted when others are barely able to choke out a whisper. For these things I am eternally grateful. Now I'd like for my "Momcologist" friends to have the same luxuries.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-23937600325544101102012-09-12T14:20:00.000-04:002012-09-12T14:20:06.054-04:00How DID he get me?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Sunday was "Rally Day" at our church which was very exciting to our children. Any time they can peruse buffet tables and load up their plates, they are happy. They look forward to any meal that is not controlled by either parent and they do surprisingly well for themselves. Except for that middle one--she still tries to leave with a plate FULL of desserts and another filled with chips. I know it's a special day, but really? At least <i>pretend</i> to be slightly healthy.<br />
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On this particular day, the middle child (shall we call her Jan? I hate that 90% of you won't get that Brady Bunch reference because...I am so very OLD...)was pretty proud of her burger, salad, potato salad, and broccoli salad selections and agreed to wait to hit the dessert table after she attempted to eat most of her meal. She and the eldest child (Greg? Marcia even though he's a boy? Perhaps I could use their real names like I usually do? Nah--too easy!) plopped their plates on a table where two elderly gentlemen were enjoying their meal. We followed them, but were hesitant because no one wants the people with the three kids to sit with them. NO ONE.<br />
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Surprisingly, I was wrong--tthe one gentleman--we'll call him Connor (because that could be his name, though he said he is 86 and Connor seems like a more modern name, doesn't it?) was thrilled to chat with my son and the other gentleman--we'll call him Ken because...well, that is his name) was joined by his wife (we'll call<i> her </i>Cathy (although her name <i>could be</i> Kathy) and both thanked us (I know, right?!) profusely for sitting with them. Evidently, my children are a <i>joy</i> to have around and they could not be more beautiful. Who knew?!<br />
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Now I won't bore you with all of the stories that were told that day (too late?!), but these three were quite comical and truly kept us entertained. At one point, Connor said to my son,<br />
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"Listen...you need to learn to cook and clean. Women love a man who can cook. That's why I was never able to get married--I didn't know how to cook so the women didn't want me."<br />
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My son, assessing the situation, looked at my husband and then at me.<br />
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"Really?!" he asked skeptically.<br />
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"REALLY," Connor replied.<br />
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"Okay...so then how did HE get HER?!" he asked while pointing into his father's chest on the left and mine on the right.<br />
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How indeed...</div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-81390310399322040372012-09-11T16:10:00.000-04:002012-09-11T16:10:00.883-04:00SUCH a disappointment<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I am so disappointed in myself. Wow--simply typing that has opened up QUITE a can of worms in my psyche (pshaww--and my husband says that my analogies are lacking! Lacking the recognition they deserve, I say!), when I really wanted to discuss just the one thing.<br />
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No...I wasn't referring to the fact that I am ridiculously out of shape, but thanks for bringing me <i>there. </i>I think we discussed that ad nauseum when <a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/10/goodbye-frumpyeasier-said-than-done.html" target="_blank">I went on and on about how hot I used to be</a> and when I talked about <a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/12/do-you-looklikewhodiditandran.html" target="_blank">looking like "...who did it and ran</a>," not to mention all of the posts about everything from<a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2012/02/according-to-my-plan-oh-great-now-i.html" target="_blank"> eating healthy</a> to <a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/10/do-not-look-at-my-chin-every-time-i-see.html" target="_blank">plucking gnarly chin hairs.</a><br />
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My disappointment has nothing to do with my appearance (at least not as far as <i>this</i> conversation is concerned), nor does it have anything to do with my <a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/10/healthy-i-think-not.html" target="_blank">eating regimen</a>. For <i>once </i>my complaints have nothing to do with food. Or lack of food. My disappointment stems from my reaction to all of my children being in school.<br />
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I really thought I had a handle on this whole school thing. When my oldest started, I was able to hold back my tears--mostly because I had two more clawing at me from their stroller and I am pretty sure that their older brother tried to drown them in the tub that morning. It's a little easier to choke back the tears when rage consumes your body. Of course, then I had to deal with the overwhelming amount of guilt I had because my day was so much better and brighter after monster-child went to school. I think I'm still harboring a little of that (and it was three? four? years ago!).<br />
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When child number two started school, I will never forget walking to the bus and almost completely losing it. With each step I said to myself, "It's not about you, it's about them, it's not about you, it's about them, it's not about you, it's about them, it's not about you, it's about them," but that wasn't working and I was a little too close to a breakdown. I felt the sob at the back of my throat and the tears getting ready to explode from my eyes when another mother said, 'Hey--didn't I see you at the school yesterday?" It is unbelievable how talking to her for a half a second was enough to save me from...me. My brain switched gears and the urge to cry did not return. After the bus came I waved and went for a long walk with my youngest. Aaaaannnndddd then came the guilt. AGAIN.<br />
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Of course, if I <i>didn't</i> enjoy the time I had with my youngest I would feel guilty about <i>that</i>, so I think we can all agree that I cannot win. Nor can you, I'm sure, because it is mom guilt. Which is [one of <i>many</i> reasons] why when I die I am coming back as the dad. Dad's are [generally speaking] able to stay out of their own heads. It either is or it isn't--there's no thinking about it or analyzing it further...it's so nice. All of those male traits that drive women crazy in dating and marriage really come in handy when raising children. The bastards. this is where I am supposed to quote Yoda, but I really need to get back to my disappointment. (You know there is something wrong with you when you are eager to "...get back to [your] disappointment!")<br />
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Child number three--the child God sent to me so that I wouldn't harm the other two--started "KIN-DEE-GAR-TEN" last week and I've been preparing for it all summer. I was so excited that all of my children would be in school. I even wrote<a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2012/09/really-bad-poetry.html" target="_blank"> pretty-stinkin-good poetry </a> about it.<br />
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Because we are either A. wanted for murder in seven states or 2. in the Witness Protection Program (oops--my cover is blown!), there is a chance we could move soon and a probability that we will move within a year (two?), so we decided that it doesn't make sense to get a job now. Not that they are hiring...evidently it isn't so easy to get a teaching job in NJ...and it has been so long (three? four years?) since my last teaching gig, I'm not sure what my chances would be. I did work for about a month last year at a Homeschool Academy, but the work load to money ratio was not in my favor (<a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/11/on-teaching.html" target="_blank">as it tends to be when it comes to teaching jobs</a>). Add to that all of my crazy health issues and we decided it wasn't the right time.<br />
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Which brings me to this year. And my disappointment. I was most excited about making this the year of "ME." That's right--I couldn't wait to have time to exercise without being interrupted, have time to cook without being interrupted, to write my blog without being interrupted...to TALK ON THE PHONE...now we are just getting crazy!<br />
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So my excitement was in full force--especially after spending the last day of summer fighting and yelling and screaming --I could not wait. I even read <a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2012/09/really-bad-poetry.html" target="_blank">my poem</a> several times to get myself psyched for the big day. And then my children got on the bus without saying goodbye...without giving hugs...and without looking back. Hindsight tells me that the oldest was trying to find seat-belts for his sisters, and everyone was frazzled and afraid of missing the bus, but I felt so...awful. I was not excited and I did <i>not</i> have fun. I sulked. And cried. And wallowed in self-pity. And got angry with myself for sulking and crying and wallowing in self-pity.<br />
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You see, I have been dealing with some issues lately. For example, we went to a dining establishment--the Log Jammer-- in Lake, George, NY recently--a restaurant my parents took us to when I was young. I was telling my husband and children my story and they were less than thrilled or excited (hopefully <i>you </i>aren't as bored as <i>they</i> were!). We get to our table and my children start jumping and pulling on--my husband. Great, right? It is--I know, but I looked around the restaurant and saw all of the children curled up in their mother's arms and sitting in their mother's laps, but not my kids. They aren't big cuddlers (the first two stopped the <i>second</i> they could walk and the third will do it, but only for minutes (seconds?) at a time or if she is hurt/and/or wants something) anyway, but I remember seeing all of the dads drinking beer, sending texts, having <i>conversations</i>, and I realized that I <i>was</i> the dad in our scene. I could have had a beer. I could have sent a text. I could have had a <i>conversation.</i> Okay...I couldn't really do the beer thing because of my medication, and I couldn't really <i>text</i> because I am the only one in this century who does not have the ability to <i>do</i> that (though I may be the only one in this century who <i>needs</i> it based on the lengthy messages and telephone conversations I've been known to have) and as for the <i>conversation--</i>I was having it, but no one was listening, but the point is, I <i>could</i> have.<br />
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I know I should be thrilled and I am. Really. This is what I've tried to work up to all these years--independent children who are able to give me five seconds to my self. Was I jealous? They do tend to idolize their father and lately they go out of their way to <i>tell</i> me how great he is and how much I suck (not in those words, but I <i>know)</i>, so I'm sure <i>that </i>has something to do with it, but I don't know if I am necessarily jealous--it just made me sad. And made me question if I'm "doing it wrong."<br />
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When they had the "...take her or leave her..." attitude that first day, I felt like I did at The Log Jammer. And THAT is why I am disappointed in myself. The <i>logical</i> person in me (waaaayyyyyy in there--you've got to <i>want</i> to see it...) knows that it is a good thing that my children are eager to go to school (and they have hugged and kissed me goodbye every day since) and that they can function without me. She knows that kids are fickle and they aren't supposed to be our "friends" anyway. She knows that her children love her. Unfortunately, the batshit-crazy person in me took over <i>years</i> ago and we pretty much do what <i>she</i> says.<br />
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The point of all this is the fact that I am disappointed in myself for being so....<i>weak</i> with all of this. I know I am stronger than that--I <i>believe</i> most of the jokes I make, so feeling all gloomy and getting all weepy when school started <i>really </i>disappointed me. It is <i>not,</i> however, as disappointing as it would be to <i>not</i> have them in school. <i>That</i> would <i>really</i> make me cry.</div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-27122941119981721142012-09-05T23:04:00.001-04:002012-09-05T23:06:50.357-04:00I MUST be the new Blogger Idol!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Okay, so there are so many things to cover as it has been SOOOOO LOONNNGGG since I've seen you all! I know there was the <a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2012/09/really-bad-poetry.html?spref=fb" target="_blank">poem</a> about my elation at the fact that my children will all be in school, but most of what I published this spring/summer (which was really not a whole lot) was a repeat of my last year in blogs. Hopefully some of you newbies got a few laughs at my earlier work. Or at me. I don't care <i>why</i> you laugh, I'm just happy if you're laughing!<br />
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So I spent a ridiculous amount of time catching up on blogs and facebook today and right before I was about to close the computer (yes...I have been known to actually <i>close</i> the computer. I have even <i>shut it down</i> occasionally. Let's not talk about sad things now), I saw a post about BloggerIdol. That's right--<i>Blogger Idol.</i> Imagine my giddiness when I saw this. It's like it was speaking to me!<br />
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Five hours later, I am excited to say that I "auditioned" for Blogger Idol, but I am going to need your help. I know--this is where I lose some of you (like my HUSBAND)--right when I say I am going to "need help," but I know you can do this for me. Go to the official <a href="http://writersarethenewrockstars.blogspot.com/p/try-out.html" target="_blank">BloggerIdol site</a> and let them know that I deserve to be in the top twelve. Not only will this help me to promote my blog and get feedback on my writing, I will also be eligible to win actual prizes! It would almost be like I am getting <i>paid</i> to write and THAT is so very exciting to me! Don't even get me <i>started </i>on the amazing bloggers behind BloggerIdol or the talented judges (really not sucking up, but probably wouldn't hurt for me to start...)--check them out and follow their pages--you won't be sorry! ( <a href="http://writersarethenewrockstars.blogspot.com/p/judges.html">http://writersarethenewrockstars.blogspot.com/p/judges.html</a>)<br />
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Wish me luck--after a spring/summer off, I may need it!<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-5546630138364670432012-09-01T15:59:00.000-04:002012-09-15T08:30:24.400-04:00Really bad poetry<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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It's the weekend before school starts<br />
and all eyes are on me<br />
because (though it's awful), I am brimming with glee!<br />
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Thoughts of the future play out in my head--<br />
days at the gym after resting in bed.<br />
Relaxing mornings as all three scurry out--<br />
lunchboxes and bookbags in hand with no pouts.<br />
While I in my jammies give hugs and say "bye!"<br />
They all three wave with love, though all eyes are dry.<br />
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Off to my blogging or facebook or tumbler;<br />
spend some time on pinterest and some time on stumbler.<br />
If I want I could watch some trashy TV<br />
or perhaps clean a room--it is all up to me.<br />
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No Pampers to change, no fighting to ref,<br />
no yelling to those who pretend they are deaf.<br />
No noses to wipe or band aids to place,<br />
no marks on the wall that I have to erase.<br />
No whiny voices or bad attitudes,<br />
no struggling to get them to not be so rude.<br />
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No fighting over spirals or Kraft macaroni.<br />
No fighting that Oscar's the best kind of bologna<br />
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No crying or fighting or cleaning up messes.<br />
No trying to get gum out of pretty blonde tresses.<br />
No saying, "No," fifty times, maybe more.<br />
No trying to pee while blockading the door.<br />
No hiding in closets to talk on the phone.<br />
No, "You're the worst mom EVER!" as my constant ring tone.<br />
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It's me--only me and though you all may mock---<br />
I am pretty sure that this week<br />
I will have writer's block.</a></center>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-35273239189788169532012-08-30T10:52:00.002-04:002012-08-30T11:03:05.077-04:00WARNING: OFFENSIVE LANGUAGE<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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My friend at <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Meanwhile-in-Kazahkstan/295514273835587" target="_blank">Meanwhile in Kazahkstan</a> asked me if I ever had to block anyone on fb and it reminded me of <i>this </i>little altercation that took place on my JATM fb page in late April. The language is TERRIBLY offensive, though I creatively threw in a * or an ! to "hide" what was originally written, but if that kind of language offends you, you may want to click out of this now while you still have the chance.<br />
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April 29: Crazed lunatic:<br />
hi are you bianca owner of [blogger who shall remain nameless because I did not get her permission to use this on my blog]page?<br />
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April 29: Just Another Tired Mommy<br />
No--this is Just Another Tired Mommy<br />
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April 29 Crazed Lunatic<br />
oh ok just ur name popped up with it in google trying to find the [nameless] person that runs the page<br />
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April 29Just Another Tired Mommy<br />
Oh--maybe because I comment and share her stuff a lot...either way, I'm glad you found me and hope you like the blog!<br />
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April 29Crazed lunatic<br />
no i dont actually i think its vile her tagging people in comments and targeting them she needs to be told to stop that crap<br />
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April 29Just Another Tired Mommy<br />
I don't know what you are talking about--that page is completely separate from mine. I suggest not looking at her page anymore if it is that upsetting to you. Anything I have ever seen has been for the sake of humor, but I don't look at everything she posts. That said, I do tag people as well--so that others are able to share in the blogs that I like. Most people appreciate being tagged as it helps to bring in more readers. I'm not sure about all this "crap" you are referring to, but again, I guess you should maybe not like the page anymore if it isn't for you. Good luck to you...<br />
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April 29Crazed lunatic<br />
ive never been apart of that pathetic piece of shit page my mum did a comment to one of the picks shared an was sensored her comment wasnt mad she then got targeted an shit said to her from the page owner reason im trying to track the nasty c@nt down so if it is u or u know her tell the dirty c@nt she f@cked with the wrong people<br />
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April 30Just Another Tired Mommy<br />
Excuse me, I do not know her, but if the comment was even close to the comment you just made, I don't blame her. I do not even know you and I do not appreciate the language you just threw at me because you are upset with another person I do not even know. Please don't respond back--you obviously WANT a fight with someone--it isn't going to be me.<br />
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April 30Crazed lunatic<br />
im not looking for a fight you obviously are try not lieing next time an try not dictate to people on what they should or shouldnt do... if it was your ownflesh an blood being given sh!t or your mum u would act the same way... your pathetic... FYI if you didnt want a convo you didnt need to respond to first msg.<br />
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April 30Crazed lunatic<br />
an fyi sharing private messages is against Fb Tos gl with that<br />
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April 30Just Another Tired Mommy<br />
I didn't NOT want a "convo..." I just don't appreciate the language that you think is okay to use when writing an email to a person you do not even know. Next time you decide to accuse someone of LYING, do your research. I answered you because I had no idea that you were a lunatic--I thought that you were innocently asking about my page--I am NOT the person you are trying to find, but I do not blame her for blocking you from her page considering the language you used on me and the names you called me when you don't even know me. Though I do not personally know her, I do enjoy her page and her posts, but I I will NOT give her the messages you left for me or for her because no one deserves to be treated this way. Perhaps checking out blogs and facebook pages isn't your thing--it clearly gets you upset. Some advice (as a mother): you never know who is on the other end of your email, so be careful what you write. If my daughter wrote the words you wrote to ANYONE--in the name of defending me or not--I would be furious and ashamed.<br />
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April 30Crazed lunatic<br />
me a lunatic lol? its you who is the lunatic... I'm just a person defending my own flesh and blood against idiots who choose to get off on making someones time on fb a living hell for no reason.... It's funny considering i only messaged u yet the sarcasm page says people have complained of comments being said lately on that... then u say word for word the same thing she has said... not a co incidence..... well thats your choice as a mother & i have the full support of my mother & my family and friends on FB... No one should be treated how you and the sarcasm page u guys run against people... its quite sick you people get your kicks of targeting others.... Sicko.<br />
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April 30Just Another Tired Mommy<br />
Listen, Nancy F@cking Drew, I have no idea how you got it into your head that I am this person (though I seriously would not mind being her as people LOVE her), but you seriously need to work on your sleuthing skills. And getting a life.<br />
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I blocked her at this point and sent emails to the true owner of the page in question, but no one else seemed bothered by what transpired. I went into this knowing that people are out of their minds, but this was my first (and so far ONLY I think) experience with a total wacko (besides MYSELF of course). There were times when I got political on here and even then, people weren't <i>completely</i> out of their minds. Really...</div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-71939849944219930612012-08-29T13:17:00.001-04:002012-08-29T13:18:28.236-04:00If you need any Halloween costumes...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/11/i-love-to-get-deal.html">http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/11/i-love-to-get-deal.html</a>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-2102199530999419192012-08-20T21:09:00.001-04:002012-08-20T21:17:26.085-04:00I'll see you in September...Well,this weekend I was finally able to catch up on some of my favorite blogs, but sadly,that was short lived tomorrow I am leaving for a week and won't have a computer. FOR SHAME! I thought this post was a good repeat considering the <a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/10/it-turns-out-i-used-to-be-hot.html">frumpy</a> and <a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/10/do-not-look-at-my-chin-every-time-i-see.html">chin hair theme.</a> My recent post about <ahref="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2012/07/there-needs-to-be-app-for-that.html">apps is also similar--I really need some new material...</a>
<a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/12/do-you-looklikewhodiditandran.html">"http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/12/do-you-looklikewhodiditandran.html">href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/12/do-you-looklikewhodiditandran.html"></a></a></a>
http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/12/do-you-looklikewhodiditandran.htmlAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-39123266131914077022012-08-20T10:39:00.002-04:002012-08-20T10:48:05.380-04:00Goodbye Frumpy...maybe next year...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/10/it-turns-out-i-used-to-be-hot.html">http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/10/it-turns-out-i-used-to-be-hot.html</a>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-84948779294628789472012-08-17T14:28:00.001-04:002012-08-18T15:30:10.913-04:00Nothing says "Hot Mama" like a few gnarly chin hairs<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I really need to look into laser hair removal...perhaps someone would provide it for me if I write a nice blog about it...<br />
<a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/10/do-not-look-at-my-chin-every-time-i-see.html">http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/10/do-not-look-at-my-chin-every-time-i-see.html</a>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03085275382498597298noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8879105757960987853.post-85578626799791284112012-08-17T11:31:00.001-04:002012-08-18T15:28:30.791-04:00MY kind of list<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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*The only way to get to the link is by clicking on the last html posted at the bottom of this post. I can't seem to fix it. I suppose I could add, "I will NEVER understand how to use my computer" to the list...
There are SOOOOOO many things to add to this list...do YOU have anything to add?
http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/11/ive-decided-that-instead-of-making-to.<a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/11/ive-decided-that-instead-of-making-to.html">html</a><a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/11/ive-decided-that-instead-of-making-to.html"></a><br />
<a href="http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/11/ive-decided-that-instead-of-making-to.html">http://anothertiredmommy.blogspot.com/2011/11/ive-decided-that-instead-of-making-to.html</a>
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